A letter to my Future Self!

When you were 10, you wanted to play with expensive toys,

But you made books your best friend.

When you were 11, you wanted to join dance class,

But learned on your own as you could't afford it.

When you were 12, you wanted to go to fantasy parks,

But you played on streets and found happiness.

When you were 13, you saw terrible things,

But you believed you can change it when you grow up.

When you were 14, you wanted a badminton kit,

But you played till State level with a normal racket.

When you were 15, many distractions came by,

You resisted them all and topped in School.

When you were 17, you wanted to take up only Badminton,

You understood your responsibility and studied instead.

When in Engineering, you wanted to go out party,

Instead you did part time jobs to afford your books.

When you had heartbreaks and you just wanted to go off track,

You chose to cry yourself to sleep and shine bright during day.

Smaller or bigger dreams, You have achieved everything
Without harming or walking over somebody else.

Even when some people around were cruel to you,

You have helped the needy and you have been kind.

With all this, Your family has always supported you 

And Nurtured you to be a good human being.

I write this to you to so that you remember your roots and the choices you have made in your life. Do not let anyone else define you or defame you. People who badmouth about you without knowing your life are only showcasing their character and not yours. Stay humble and Be Kind because that is what differentiates you from all those who try to bully or harass you!

We are What We Nurture!

Time and again, when I read about some bad news I get into thoughts about why someone does something wrong. Is it the type of environment they are brought up in that they don't realize it is bad or are they angry with the society that they don't care for others? Whatever the reason they might have got I still believe nothing justifies for someone to do terrible things to other person.

I happened to take office cab in the evening few days back and sadly I was the only one that day in the cab. Driver was driving fine but there was a two wheeler ahead and he horned twice so that he gives some space. Out of nowhere the rider got angry, stopped his vehicle. Abused the driver, pulled him out of his seat and hit him. I was in shock about what was happening. Since it was a Tempo Traveler, I could not even see the vehicle number and glad that few people came and made these two start moving.

I wonder why was he so aggressive, what was the need for him to actually beat another person without him doing any mistake.
I asked my cab driver why didn't he take down his bike number or beat him back. He said, these things keep happening ma'am and they are like rowdies. I don't want to get into fights and lose my job.

I was having a conversation with another cab driver few days ago and I happened to tell him this above incident, and then our conversation started. He told me how he used to be short tempered and has fought with many people on road, and he has even spent whole day in jail. There I stopped him and asked why would you do that, why get into fights unnecessarily. He said "my dad worked in KSTRC, he was good man, Married my mom who was of different caste and hence we had no relatives. Everyone were against us, but we were a happy family. After few years we met with accident where only I and my brother survived. I was basically angry with everyone and did not know what to do of with my life, but had to lead it.
Since I did not know how to channelize my anger I used to get into all these fights. But since 3 years I’m calm. I know I can't afford to go to jail or get hurt. I have a brother, who looks up to me now and I should make sure he gets the education I didn't.

Talking to these people and after some introspection, only one thing I can conclude is If we want to be good, we will be no matter what. And hey being good here I refer only about not hurting anyone else physically. As being good by nature differs with each ones perspective, lets not even go there.
Only we can nurture the goodness in us. How much ever others influence us in a good or bad way, it’s up to us to choose what we want to be. 

What do you think?

Consolidated My #JustSaying Tweets!

I was just going through my old tweets and realized I have tweeted a lot on this #JustSaying hashtag and few made sense and few are just a laugh riot :D So here I'm writing all of them listing oldest on the top. Do read and let me know which tweet you liked the most!

1. Sure, Money isn't everything but You need money for everything !!
2. Some Decisions may be tough to make or even take time,But once made stick to it. Don't regret.
3. Somethings we can't go back to, because we let them slip away
4. Its not age, but courage that matters !!
5. Internet is Surely a way to become Rich. You just need to be Smart enough.
6. Life can be colorful , you just got to edit a little.
7. Always express rather than expect .! You ll be happy.
8. Life is a balancing act.
9. Sometimes, Its very Important to put your thoughts on paper
10. Love yourself so much that, you are not scared of someone not loving you.
11. You write well when you are filled with emotions.
12. I'm gonna avoid negativity around me!! If u r ignored, be sure that u were too negative.
13. Solid thoughts come in odd hours of the day
14. Smile not only because everything is fine but because you ready to face!
15. Change is inevitable, adapting to it is optional!
16. Lead by Influencing someone to move in right direction without taking authority over him
17. When you achieve something it is very important not to be complacent for long time!
18. We get advises from each corner, if we take it all we shall be mad!
19. Re-reading your life is fine but not rewriting!
20. Just because he/she is your love doesn't mean you should agree to whatever they do.Have courage to speak up when they are wrong!
21. Its good to give your smile to others but not at the cost of losing your own!
22. Starting point of all achievements is the desire to achieve it!

See all Here: #JustSaying

Thoughts of my conscience!

Almost once every week that I see someone on the road asking for lift. Not sure if everyone comes across this or I travel in such roads where people do not hesitate taking lifts. Oh by the way these are all men, of course women won’t or can’t ask lift from a stranger when even regular cabs aren't safe for them.. how will they trust strangers..!

So coming back to me seeing some strangers asking for lift.. my heart tells me to stop my vehicle and drop that person in need. But my mind says NO, you might get into trouble. I have heard many stories around people getting hurt or looted when they give lift to strangers. I being a paranoid person can’t stop thinking of those scenarios happening to me.

So every time I see someone looking for a drop, I look at him and almost wanting to stop but just flee away. And the whole way all I could think is did I do wrong by not helping someone in need, what if that person was in urgent need of drop. Then my brain takes over asking what if that person had a weapon and had bad intentions behind asking lift.

I felt guilty every time I did not stop and help someone who wanted lift, then came a fine day when this small boy on a flyover was looking for lift.. Without listening to my brain I just stopped blindly. Spoke to him about his school and exams while on the way and dropped him. I felt GOOD! I mean if we live in a society where we are scared to help others in need what kind of living is that.

I felt being optimistic is the only key to stay and be happy. You have a hope for the future if you can keep up your optimism. When I got the smile back from the kid after dropping there was hope that not everyone is bad. I should continue to be helping positively. 

One other example I would like to recall here is, there was this girl whom I just knew from social media. She needed a place to crash at night as her train was reaching Bangalore late at night. I offered her to stay over at my place and she obliged. No big deal right? When my friend called me that night and I mentioned about this situation to her, she yelled at me saying if I am out of my mind calling a stranger to stay at home. It’s not that she is a bad person but she is SCARED. But this incident gave me a friend who I like to talk with. And makes me be optimistic about making new friends. After all friends are a strangers at the beginning.

Thanks to https://housing.com/lookup that made be recall and share these incidents with you all.

With this all I am saying is let’s try to do good deeds on every day basis and reinstate trust in each other.

--Spread a smile today!

Life made easy with e-commerce sites!

Those days are gone when my family used to head out every month to shop groceries for home. Stocking up all the essentials for a month was very important. When I say family, mostly Mom used to go and get these with the huge list she made. I or my brother would accompany some times when we weren't feeling too lazy. But still it so used to happen, that we miss getting one or two items or its obvious few items would get over in middle of the month. Those are the days I curse as Mom used to ask either bro or me to go get them. 

With our busy schedules now it’s very hard to take out time for grocery shopping, once a month is fine but not every now and then. Or say vegetables and fruits shopping which we cannot stock up for more days.  Also we couldn't expect mom to go out every time to buy things. As a solution came e-commerce websites which allows the grocery shopping with so much ease.

My Inspiration!

We have all heard from our teachers or leaders say that we should work in a team to get better results. Team work is good but in life you will have to do most of the things on your own. It is you who can help yourself achieve what you want. But I personally feel it is good to have someone with us in that journey to talk to or #lookup to. So here is my story on the same thought for www.housing.com.

I have been a good student who scored more than average marks in school and got into good colleges without any major hurdles. I’m also favorite kid to parents who is good in sports and cultural activities too. Now I have got a good job through which I’m leading a decent livelihood.
But if I just pause and think through, there are so many instances where in I always had my brother playing a major role inspiring me or just being there as my support system.

Asus Phone's Valentines day offer!

Lot of new Android phones have launched in recent times..!

Mobile manufacturing company Asus launched its phones which are classy yet affordable to all!

Asus have come up with a special valentines day offer. The offer is valid exclusively on Flipkart.

To buy the phone you can visit the this Link.

To mark the occasion they have come up with an ad as well, which I found to be really nice for this month of Love <3

It can be lovely gift from you to you!

Cheers! 

Things that define me!

When I saw this #UseyourAnd campaign at BlogAdda, I actually started restrospecting on what defines me. I have always heard people talk about women being either intelligent or beautiful, I’m sure most of you too. If a pretty women grows high up in her career than others, it is generalised that she got the opportunity because of her looks. But we wouldn't consider to think she might really be talented to reach there. Can we just stop and think how stereotypical that is! I believe women are Multitalented and hence writing this post to tell you all what defines me.

To start off, I was second topper in my school during 10th std and studied in one of the best colleges during my PUC. I completed my Engineering from RVCE, one of the top colleges in Karnataka. I got through campus placement and i work for one of the good firms as a Software Engineer. Hold on, don't assume I'm just a nerd who studied well and got one boring job. .

Yes, I can Ride bike too!