Friday, December 16, 2011

Conflicts with strangers views !

It was 6 in the evening when i boarded into the bus Alone which was from kolar to Bangalore. Even though it was 2 hours journey, i made myself comfortable in the seat next to window so that i wouldn't be too tired to next days work at office. I'm usually up for some conversation with the person next to me whenever i travel alone. But this time since i was on calls for like 45mins, i didn't greet the person next to me.

I was surprised when she started the conversation; she said hi, are you working in Kolar? And our conversation went on in introducing our self.
For this blog sake lets call her Cathy. Quick introduction about her: cathy, married to a Asst professor and works as lecturer in Nursing college. She is doing her PG from Rajiv Gandhi institute from Karnataka. She stayed in Bangalore for 4days.

Cathy :Its so easy to get IT job in Bangalore right?
me: (ya right, if so All B.E graduates in Bangalore would be employed :D ) Yes it is if you are talented enough.

Cathy: How do you live in Bangalore, there is so much traffic.?
Me: This time on her face, See when people from all over wants to come and stay in Bangalore, population increases and everyone has to travel so its common to have traffic jams. But I'm sure it will become better since Metro is also coming up.

Cathy: I stayed here for four days, there is nothing to see other than malls !
Me: Its a metropolitan city and IT hub of India. Still there are places like ulsoor lake, cubbon park, lalbagh, wonder la, Vidhan Soudha , Vishveshwariah Museum for the visitors to look for.

Cathy: But Our Hyderabad has Monuments like Golkonda, charminar.
Me: (Here people are only like monuments who embrace any culture or language :) ) I suggested to vistit Mysore palace.

And then we started conversing about which places are beautifull to visit.
She asked me if her English is fluent enough as she had to take up some exam to go to Canada. I gave her my feedback. And we left greeting each other all the best.

By this what i observed was, People will always find negatives in you or your place or your closed ones.
Sometimes we must not ignore it and try to tell the positives in everything.

In a conversation do not argue, be compose and speak. Appreciate the other one where ever needed. Share the positive energy to all. :)

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